In every relationship no matter how you are together, no matter how long you've been with someone, no matter how you fell in love, no matter what you have been through together.
There comes a time when life will test the strength of your relationship this will come in many forms. Growing crushes or feelings for others, Lust/affairs (possibly), fighting, doubt, wondering if it's 'meant' to be, fading of sparks, etc.
The Key is to not give up to keep pushing through, sparks DO in fact come back! If you push through they come back!
All of this is to test your relationship if you push through you'll never regret it, this is how people even from 500 years ago even some today made relationships work. They Never Gave Up.
Fighting is just alot of passion if you try you can find a way for you two to get on the right flow! Crushes are natural just don't act on it and stay true to your partner you made the commitment keep it.
There's no such thing as a meant to be relationship it's only what you make it you control it's destiny from the start.
Fighting is just alot of passion as I stated earlier, if you try you can find a way for you two to get on the right flow!
Crushes are natural just don't act on it and stay true to your partner you made the commitment keep it.
Lust/Affairs are sadly apart of life it's a hard thing to forgive, of course don't forgive a serial cheater, but you can try to forgive a few times you can find a way to work through it. It's just testing and if you try hard enough you'll get over this.
All of the things I've mentioned are just tests and once you've passed it will blossom into something beautiful something you will never regret.
Humans are flawed creatures by design we are like every other animal and we have more control yes, but sometimes those animal-like instincts take over, which leads to acting on lust, not for all but for some and you have to be strong enough to understand to forgive it and help your partner over come it.
I'm not saying it's okay, because it's not, but I am saying it's possible to over come.
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